Straight from heart...............................
The most I have lost in my personal life is because of the image i have in MY SOCIAL LIFE
Hi
When I was in school I was supposed to be a average student with a tag good.
This tag of good is like a dis blessing for me. Being good means girls will think you are a student interested in everything as then them they will respect you but n0t be your friends, if become not will be open and frank to you since you are not that type. Teachers will accept you to do well in studies as well as in co-curricular activities.
Y0ur desires will die in the attention you will get and slowly you feel good for what you gain but the time when you know what you lost, you will as per nature try to justify, then you will realize what you have to pay for that is too too high.
You cant express your self as you are good, you cant seat on back and pass comments have fun with your friends because you are a good student.
If you open your heart in front of some one she will just scream " ye tumhe kya ho gaya kaisi bate kar rahe ho" its not expected from you if someone with last in rank, having spike hair means cool dude will say he is caring and will get the ..........................
I have heard a story in my adolescence that a person died and went to Yama he has been asked where you want to go Hell Or Haven he just begged for haven as usual, while in the way to haven he saw a place full of drizzling light, party is on the rocks every one was just rocking there beer and wine was flowing like river, hot Babs are dancing and ................................
just thinking about that place he went to a place ful of darkness peace like graveyard, some old people are seating and doing pooja and all...........
he wondered and asked YAMDUT which place is it , Yamdut replies its haven , then he screamed what was the one in the way.
Yamdut laughed and said that's Hell.
Who do leisure on earth will get same in hell because doing leisure is there nature and you cant change some ones nature so don't search for heaven heavens are always boring.
same is with good students whole life this good tags lets them struggle , take fun out of life
will never ever got a GF. cant do masti so what left in life for which he can strive.
At last you will have friends who will discuss social issues national issues with you but not personal because you are good friend but not close enough. If you say you are looking beautiful you will receive thanks because you are mannerly, but if comment from some one is kya patakha maal lag rahi hai man karta hai....................... then this comment can be given by a close friend, but you cant give since you are a good student and good student must have curtsy .you can refer an example of film sakalaka BOOM BOOM, Boby deoyal was a man with manner there and finally he got.....................
the world is fast moving and after school when you think now you grown up and can say what u feel since adolescence , more over you went to girl and express your self you will come to know she is already looking some one & you are late.
Then this late cant be recovered and will will be late entire life after that. The word which ECO in your ears will be YOU ARE LATE >...............................
So in future i will not let my next generation be a good student and will not make him be away from all fun of life?
Above and all i will not advice him to write in early age , if he will get this talent i will make sure in all adolescence to youth he always write love poems for the ............................
If he still after all precautions turns to be good i will make sure that he be like katyayan to have a long pool of female fan following after being a extra ordinarily good student.
katyayan how managed this yar?????????
Sunday, April 19, 2009
Wednesday, April 8, 2009
Bright Shades of Darkness
People goes on crying for almost every situation they face, because nothing goes the way you think always. so common people keep on complaining about the darkness of their life but never try to reflect the other side.Those who felt the brighter shade in darkness become successfull and eye candy for the world.
One of the worlds greatest mathematician S. Ramanujan failed in his pre- degree exam in all subjects except math a person can have taken it as a failure or say darkness but he considered the positive side and keep on working on his mathematics and result every one knows...................
Worlds ever greatest scientist Albert Einstein has been thrown out of school in his school days, his teacher has a feeling that he is not even been able to solve simple problems of mathematics, history teacher has also complains but he know whats brighter in that and rest all every one knows................................
Worlds richest person Bill gates was also not extra ordinary in his early days but he also search the brightness and rest all every one knows............................................
There are thousands of examples and its difficult to mention each and every one but two I would like to mention
My one of the best frnd katayayan pandey also deserves to be in this list
A boy very famous in school not because of his fathers wealth neither of killing looks but simply for his extra ordinary common sense and learning ability.
its hard for him to pay school fee, he got scholarship, he is not been able to select in any of the India's premier engineering entrance, and a few which he qualifies not been able to take admission because of high fee.in this much of surrounding darkness he keep on searching a flame and a bright one appears in his way as A fruit of his hard work,
now he is in one of India's premier Eng. college and rest world will see.....................................................
A great and most inspiring one is
Dr. Basant Pathalk
being a dr. in India itself is a costly affair and becomes havoc when you have a treatening family condition in terms of financial crisis. What you will say if you miss a seat in aims because of our fullish leaders impractical reservation policy.
just see what he has to say,
Me: don't you think reservation is hearting the talent like you.
Basant: i dont think so my competition is which those guys who got 15 marks more and got reservation not with those who score 100 MARKS LESS THAN ME and still got admission because of reservation. they are not up to my competency that's why they are given special privilege.
next year he produces miracle and now in AFMC and rest world will know.................................
this blog is a tribute to his positive thinking and believe in system when every one is blaming it.
SOME THING ABOUT ME
I m a ordinary person fortunately having such great and extra ordinary frnds. that what i hve earned in my life and that what is my identity.
I am a serviving Engg.(D) working with a company , name vikas.
use to dark the paper in search of Bright shade and hope will find something because i hve worlds most precious treasure with me that is my frnds........
there is not a long list but every one is unique...
after these two
there are few more mentionable
Prakash singh A successfull person.
Ravi Singh gifted with some Extra ordinary Geniuses.
Trina day a true genius( is she a girl, Still need to be ................................)
Yogender Singh a person of his own thinking and caliber.
Radhika saxena has a world of her own.
Sandhya sherwat she knows what she is nd what she mean to......................
Srijan shukla have a lot of positive Eng.
that's all there Are a few more latter on they will take their appropriate place in blog as with rowing time.
One of the worlds greatest mathematician S. Ramanujan failed in his pre- degree exam in all subjects except math a person can have taken it as a failure or say darkness but he considered the positive side and keep on working on his mathematics and result every one knows...................
Worlds ever greatest scientist Albert Einstein has been thrown out of school in his school days, his teacher has a feeling that he is not even been able to solve simple problems of mathematics, history teacher has also complains but he know whats brighter in that and rest all every one knows................................
Worlds richest person Bill gates was also not extra ordinary in his early days but he also search the brightness and rest all every one knows............................................
There are thousands of examples and its difficult to mention each and every one but two I would like to mention
My one of the best frnd katayayan pandey also deserves to be in this list
A boy very famous in school not because of his fathers wealth neither of killing looks but simply for his extra ordinary common sense and learning ability.
its hard for him to pay school fee, he got scholarship, he is not been able to select in any of the India's premier engineering entrance, and a few which he qualifies not been able to take admission because of high fee.in this much of surrounding darkness he keep on searching a flame and a bright one appears in his way as A fruit of his hard work,
now he is in one of India's premier Eng. college and rest world will see.....................................................
A great and most inspiring one is
Dr. Basant Pathalk
being a dr. in India itself is a costly affair and becomes havoc when you have a treatening family condition in terms of financial crisis. What you will say if you miss a seat in aims because of our fullish leaders impractical reservation policy.
just see what he has to say,
Me: don't you think reservation is hearting the talent like you.
Basant: i dont think so my competition is which those guys who got 15 marks more and got reservation not with those who score 100 MARKS LESS THAN ME and still got admission because of reservation. they are not up to my competency that's why they are given special privilege.
next year he produces miracle and now in AFMC and rest world will know.................................
this blog is a tribute to his positive thinking and believe in system when every one is blaming it.
SOME THING ABOUT ME
I m a ordinary person fortunately having such great and extra ordinary frnds. that what i hve earned in my life and that what is my identity.
I am a serviving Engg.(D) working with a company , name vikas.
use to dark the paper in search of Bright shade and hope will find something because i hve worlds most precious treasure with me that is my frnds........
there is not a long list but every one is unique...
after these two
there are few more mentionable
Prakash singh A successfull person.
Ravi Singh gifted with some Extra ordinary Geniuses.
Trina day a true genius( is she a girl, Still need to be ................................)
Yogender Singh a person of his own thinking and caliber.
Radhika saxena has a world of her own.
Sandhya sherwat she knows what she is nd what she mean to......................
Srijan shukla have a lot of positive Eng.
that's all there Are a few more latter on they will take their appropriate place in blog as with rowing time.
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