Straight from heart...............................
The most I have lost in my personal life is because of the image i have in MY SOCIAL LIFE
Hi
When I was in school I was supposed to be a average student with a tag good.
This tag of good is like a dis blessing for me. Being good means girls will think you are a student interested in everything as then them they will respect you but n0t be your friends, if become not will be open and frank to you since you are not that type. Teachers will accept you to do well in studies as well as in co-curricular activities.
Y0ur desires will die in the attention you will get and slowly you feel good for what you gain but the time when you know what you lost, you will as per nature try to justify, then you will realize what you have to pay for that is too too high.
You cant express your self as you are good, you cant seat on back and pass comments have fun with your friends because you are a good student.
If you open your heart in front of some one she will just scream " ye tumhe kya ho gaya kaisi bate kar rahe ho" its not expected from you if someone with last in rank, having spike hair means cool dude will say he is caring and will get the ..........................
I have heard a story in my adolescence that a person died and went to Yama he has been asked where you want to go Hell Or Haven he just begged for haven as usual, while in the way to haven he saw a place full of drizzling light, party is on the rocks every one was just rocking there beer and wine was flowing like river, hot Babs are dancing and ................................
just thinking about that place he went to a place ful of darkness peace like graveyard, some old people are seating and doing pooja and all...........
he wondered and asked YAMDUT which place is it , Yamdut replies its haven , then he screamed what was the one in the way.
Yamdut laughed and said that's Hell.
Who do leisure on earth will get same in hell because doing leisure is there nature and you cant change some ones nature so don't search for heaven heavens are always boring.
same is with good students whole life this good tags lets them struggle , take fun out of life
will never ever got a GF. cant do masti so what left in life for which he can strive.
At last you will have friends who will discuss social issues national issues with you but not personal because you are good friend but not close enough. If you say you are looking beautiful you will receive thanks because you are mannerly, but if comment from some one is kya patakha maal lag rahi hai man karta hai....................... then this comment can be given by a close friend, but you cant give since you are a good student and good student must have curtsy .you can refer an example of film sakalaka BOOM BOOM, Boby deoyal was a man with manner there and finally he got.....................
the world is fast moving and after school when you think now you grown up and can say what u feel since adolescence , more over you went to girl and express your self you will come to know she is already looking some one & you are late.
Then this late cant be recovered and will will be late entire life after that. The word which ECO in your ears will be YOU ARE LATE >...............................
So in future i will not let my next generation be a good student and will not make him be away from all fun of life?
Above and all i will not advice him to write in early age , if he will get this talent i will make sure in all adolescence to youth he always write love poems for the ............................
If he still after all precautions turns to be good i will make sure that he be like katyayan to have a long pool of female fan following after being a extra ordinarily good student.
katyayan how managed this yar?????????
NO COMMENTS ON THAT....
ReplyDeleteI DONT KNOW WHAT TO SAY ON THAT......
AS NIETHER BELONGED TO CETEGORY OF GOOD STUDENT NOR BAD STUDENTS...
I WAS ALWAYS AN AVERAGE STUDENT...WITH AN IMAGE OF AVERAGE STUDENT.......
well, frankly speaking i have to agree with what vikas has said...there are always some limitations of being the so called "good student" or precisely i should say preset notions about a good student..
ReplyDeleteTeachers expect you to perform well in all spheres and you have a limited number of very close friends...people know you that is one thing but they are not your friends (infact to get this fame you have to pay a heavy price)..classmates have a very limited but imust say friendlyand warm approach towards you ...let me tell everyone ,just to preserve that image we live as an artificial show piece..we have limitation in behaviour as well as conduct..
finally, i would no regets for being what i am ...to gain something, you have to lose something but all this was too much to loose...
Ok,so Well I do agree to vikas that we all had paid a huge toll for our student life,lost a couple of friends on the last steps of those stairs and then moving forward with such a velocity that we couldn't even see what all we have lost of left behind in this life.
ReplyDeletewe all rushed for a new life and buried the old one,well this post of vikas rolled me back in time of school days.
first comments on the blog style...
ReplyDeletei am thankful, u chose a simple style without lots of glitter and other unnecessary things... So that the reader can only concentrate on reading the content..
ur writing style is impeccable, so can't judge that... but i thought there were some gramatical mistakes at some places.. and also the article wasn't formatted properly... but u can always improve on that.. please review the article before posting..
and no names please, i saw u have used the name of katyayan in the post. thats not correct...
u r gonna be a big blogger someday, with 100s of readers (i hope its not a private blog). so giving names of friends in the post is a no-no.
now coming back to the topic... well, even i have to agree, that this 'good student' tag takes too much out of life.. u have written this article keeping girls and girlfriends in mind. but i think, it does affect u in other spheres of life also... ur own expectations from u go sky high.. why cant i be me, without having to prove anyone anthing... well said, keep up the good work...\
RavS
i think what ravs has said is absolutely right..don't limit your discussion on a particular individual..and i was in hurry so i forgot to say this..keep all our personal jokes and taunts out of the public sphere..
ReplyDeleteeverybody knows who had what !!